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Octavia’s Senior Story | Wegerzyn Gardens | Centerville Class of 2022

Octavia, a senior at CHS, is MJ’s daughter which makes her inherently cool and interesting. MJ is a deep sea diver doctor, blue fedora wearing, folding fan waving, peace-giving kind of mama. See:

Thanks MJ, for trusting me to photograph your absolutely stunning daughter and for fanning me while I worked in the thick August heat at Wegerzyn Gardens! It’s an honor to share this chapter of Octavia’s story…

One word to describe me is optimistic.

I like that I am thoughtful and a good listener.

 I believe that those qualities make someone a good friend and person to confide in.

Sometimes I hold myself back in certain social situations.

Most people don’t know that I play the guitar, and I really like frogs.

I’ve learned in school how to work with others and make the most of a strange and isolating situation.

I play the violin.

Recently I joined a quartet- we play at nursing homes for the residents.

Music-wise I listen to pretty much everything, though alternative rock will always hold a special place in my heart.

This is also my third year as a lifeguard at my local pool…

saving lives everyday of course!

After High school I hope to go to OU and be accepted into the Honors Tutorial College program.

In ten years I hope to have a career in the sciences, or wherever my college journey takes me…

and I hope to travel the world.

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The Kresser’s Summer Story | Caesar’s Creek Pioneer Village

Meet the Kresser family. Mom- Alexandra, is an Agency Recruiter for State Farm. She was born and raised in Costa Rica. She came to the US in 2007 and became a US citizen in 2012. She loves art, music, dancing and drawing. Dad- Michael, is Vice President at Victory Wholesale Group. He was born and raised in Cincinnati. Michael is an avid runner and extreme sports enthusiast. Has the heart of an adventurer! Together, they have 6-year-old twins Tristan and Adriana. When I asked them one word to describe their family, they said: diverse. I would add to that: delightful…

Before becoming parents we always used to hear the phrase “there is no greater love than the one you feel for your child.” 

But when you become a parent that phrase comes to life and you come to truly understand it.

It’s truly incredible how much love a human being is capable of feeling and how utterly selfless a parent is when it comes to the wellbeing of their child. 

Our dream is for all of us to grow old together, healthy and supporting each other.

We hope our children grow up happy and that they learn to appreciate everything in their lives.

Not only the value of family, friends, hard work, love, compassion, kindness, but also the little things…

whether they make them laugh or cry.

We hope they always love, support and respect each other…

and never lose the bond that they have as twins!  

When she grows up, Adriana wants to be a Pottery Artist, a Doctor, and a Pilot  (it changes every day lol)…

Tristan wants to be a Soccer Player, a Policeman and a Pilot…

I hope we continue to travel together.  

We love the outdoors- we have a trailer and we love to go camping whenever we can. We also enjoy going on hikes and picnics. 

I see us staying in Ohio, but also spending more time in Costa Rica and other countries in Latin America, so the twins can stay connected with part of their roots and learn to see life through a broader scope.

Emily and Dani are having a baby! Smith Gardens, Oakwood, Ohio

Emily and I have been friends since we were 16- though she would tell you that she didn’t like me at first. It’s because I’m the Mary…she’s the Rhoda! Recently, Emily and her wife, Danielle, made one of the bravest decisions anyone can ever make: they decided to have a baby. It is my great joy and honor to document them in this swell season- for they are both so ripe, so ready…

We were supposed to find out if we were pregnant through bloodwork drawn at our doctor’s office on the morning of January 12, 2021.  That afternoon, a nurse called with what we expected to be big news, only to find out their machine broke and they would have to send the sample off. That evening we tried to stay relaxed and watched TV. Around 10 P.M. Danielle started smelling something and asked me if I was cooking some kind of meat in the oven. I wasn’t of course, and this started getting our wheels turning that maybe this was the first pregnancy sign.  The next day the nurse called and said we were in fact expecting. We both initially felt shocked and thought, “Whoa, here we go.”

Parenting is going to be a new world for us and the unknown is a little scary. We are nervous about losing our flexible schedules.  We realize this little guy will soon take over all aspects of our lives- both good and bad.

Throughout this pregnancy, I’ve learned that Danielle is strong…

I have seen another depth of her commitment and willingness…

She is the inspiration and rock of our little family.

When I was on the struggle bus and helpless, I’ve been reassured that I can truly rely on Emily when things get tough.

Thank God Emily was around to prepare snacks and sandwiches during the morning sickness phase!

As a mother, I hope to provide a consistent and nurturing environment. I want our son to be able to find comfort and refuge with me no matter what is happening in his life. 

Emily will be engaging and playful!

I can see Emily and our son exploring in nature… they will have a lot to learn together.

We are very excited to share new adventures with our little boy. We look forward to traveling and taking him around the U.S., especially the National Parks.

We hope to see things through his eyes and learn from his experiences.

We hope that our son knows how much we love him and that he loves us too.

Our dream is that he has a well-rounded life of happiness, adventure and strong personal connections.  

We hope that he is healthy, full of wonder and gratitude and that he will have a good sense of humor.  

We want him to pursue his dreams.

Also, we never want to forget the special time we’ve shared with our Romey-Cat before being parents.

Feeling our little boy’s determined bounces and kicks in Danielle’s belly, and the little hints our son gives us all on what his personality will be…

 

Savannah Turns 12 at Home, Springboro, Ohio

When I asked Savannah what she wanted to do for her 12th birthday she said a small party at home with a few close friends.

She also asked for pizza, Dad’s famous ice cream cake, and a dress-up photoshoot with the girls.

I’m happy to abide these simple requests not only for the ease but also for the joy of capturing these pretty hearts.

On the verge of adolescence and self-discovery,

may these carefree moments stay with them always…

reminding them of who they already are: precious and loved.

Lindsay Turns 40 With Her Family, Centerville, Ohio

When your sister in-law turns 40 you take her damn picture.

Because everyone needs to know what 40 looks like:

(like you’re preparing to go down a steep waterslide)

but you’re not afraid

cause you know you’re not alone…

You’ve got daughters to fix your hair,

sisters to snuggle (and brothers to play UB40 tracks on the playlist),

nieces to write the sweetest birthday cards,

and wisdom for your children.

You’ve got a mom with a remote who loves to share

and dance!

You’ve got a blind watchdog,

 a suspicious chihuahua,

a snarfling punk,

and even a few bearded dragons…

They won’t judge you no matter how weird 40 gets.

Happy Birthday Linds!

From your very “special” family…

And thanks again to Bobo for getting the best toy any grandboys could ask for…

Michelle & Dusk | Rustic Romantic at Cavu | Tampa, Florida

When my cousin Michelle asked me if I’d like to photograph her wedding in Tampa I was completely humbled. Not only was she giving me (and my best friend and 2nd photographer, Jenna) the opportunity to escape Ohio in the dead of winter, she was giving me the best compliment. Michelle is beautiful, smart, caring and hilarious- and it just felt so special that she’d trust me to capture such an important day in her life. Sure, I’m her cousin but we see each other like every five years and I would’ve completely understood if she’d went with a local photographer (of which their are many talents to choose from). All this not to flatter but to say with complete sincerity, Thanks Cuz. Jenna and I had such an incredible day with you and the family…

Michelle and Dusk met like most people do these days, online:

Michelle: I met Dusk on Tinder. I was watching an episode of New Girl and the main character, Jess, downloaded the Tinder equivalent dating app on the show. My roommate, who had been in a relationship for a couple of years, was watching the show with me and was curious about the dating app situation so I downloaded Tinder and was showing her what it was. I swiped for a few people, but I only talked to Dusk.

Dusk: We had been talking over Tinder for a while and we were finally going to meet in person and have dinner at Bella’s Italian Grille in Tampa. I put on a full suit and I was insanely nervous as I sat outside the restaurant for an hour waiting for her to show up.

Michelle: I was 15 minutes late because I locked my keys in my car at a gas station on the way and he was sitting in front of the restaurant wearing a button up, tie, and dress pants when I finally got there.

Dusk: By the time she got there, my nerves had calmed down and we sat and ate calzones, talking about how she thought she could get away with murder and how I didn’t want an appetizer because I wasn’t rich like Warren Buffett.

Michelle: I thought he was very handsome and I could tell he put in effort to look nice for me. It was very sweet. I was anxious going into the date, but our conversation flowed naturally and all of that melted away.

Dusk: After dinner we sat outside by the dumpsters for another couple hours, continuing to make each other laugh until we were tired enough to go back to our homes.

Michelle: We actually talked in the parking lot for a long while before leaving. I immediately felt very comfortable with him.

Dusk: We started officially dating 3 or 4 days later.

And then they got married…

The entire day felt like one big adrenaline rush…

I had a lot of anxiety about having everyone there focused so intensely on me,

but it was a lot less scary on the actual day and I had a BLAST.

I was beside myself with emotion most of the day.

I don’t think I saw Michelle cry once, but it seemed like every 5 mins I was getting choked up.

For the First Look especially, I was an absolute mess.

Ultimately, I loved that we did the first look because I felt like from that point on I had my best friend there to go through the rest of the day with me.

Michelle has a way of making you feel like everything is alright, even when, on paper, it seems like it shouldn’t be.

Dusk always brings me a sense of calm.

If you’ve ever met Michelle, you already know.

She’s such a special, warm, loving person that I couldn’t help but fall madly in love with her pretty much immediately.

Dusk is truly my best friend in every sense of the word.

He listens to me, without judgment, when I just need to vent and he almost always takes my side.

He does challenge me when it’s necessary, but I always feel like he’s on my team.

Also, if you haven’t gathered, we can be quite odd – exceptionally so when we’re together – but that oddness is truly our own and it’s hilarious and wonderful.

I admire Dusk’s drive, intelligence, and his attention to detail! I wish I had half the motivation that he has. He knows what he wants and he doesn’t let anything get in the way.

I admire Michelle’s emotional intelligence.

She has an unparalleled sense of how others feel and because of that I feel like she is going to be a truly great mother.

The whole day was perfect in my eyes.

Michelle was beautiful, the food was great…

I married my best friend.

First Look: Historic Ybor City; Ceremony and Reception: Cavu

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Nate’s Senior Story | Waynesville & Corwin Nixon Covered Bridge | Springboro Class of 2020

Nate was such a fun senior guy to photograph, not only because he had a sort of easygoing quality about him that made my job feel effortless, but also because he had the uncanny ability to look like a completely different person depending on the light and the angle. See for yourself…

My name is Nate and I’m a senior at Springboro High School.

Most people don’t know that I’m actually 18 because I look younger than I am.

I play tennis for the SHS and work at Dicks Sporting Goods.

In my free time, I like to hang out with my friends and play sports.

My dream vacation is probably going to a really nice beach with a bunch of my friends and family and having a good time together.

One word to describe me is athletic…

My favorite quality about myself is my intelligence.

My least favorite is probably my organization skills and time management.

My biggest challenge I’ve had to overcome recently is migraines.

But they taught me that if I stay focused and determined that I’ll get through it no matter what.

No matter what happens in grades and tests, I always try to look at the positives and try and have fun while high school lasts.

After I graduate I plan to go to college somewhere and get a degree in sports and statistics.

I don’t know specifically where I want to go yet, but I have ideas of some colleges I am interested in: Ohio University, Tennessee, Purdue and Miami at Oxford.

In ten years, I see myself graduated from college, having a great job to start off my career, and hopefully starting a family.

Did you know Ohio has over 125 covered bridges? And if you’re feeling frisky you can even road trip and tour some nearby…

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A Thanksgiving Reunion, Extended Family Session, Centerville, Ohio

Mom and Dad have been married for 70 years.

My parents were set up on a blind date by my mom’s cousin, Russell.  Russell knew my dad from working at NCR. I believe they were both 19 at the time. 

The rest, it’s said, is history.

We were your typical 60’s family.

My dad worked, mom stayed home with the kids and the three kids were expected to behave.  We did – most of the time. We didn’t have a lot of money but as kids we didn’t know that. What we did have was a lot of love.  As we grew older my dad made sure that each of us had the opportunity to go to college. He felt education was extremely important.  My dad would say, “We need to improve the breed.” Fast forward to today –Tanya, Rick and I have married wonderful spouses, Rod, Carolyn & Mike, respectively. 

My parents have seen the family grow to six grandkids and 8 great grandkids. As dad says now, “We have, in fact, improved the breed!” 

One thing that is consistent as the years went by is that there is still a lot of love in this family. We enjoy getting together even though distance can keep us apart. Last Thanksgiving brought us all together for the first time in a long time.

I admire my parents.  There were times when they could have thrown in the towel because things got hard but they didn’t.  I remember a lot of arguments but they would always stick it out. It was very rare for a day to go by that they didn’t smooch a time or two.  Eventually, the arguments would be forgotten and we were all back to laughing about the silly things.

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Brandon’s Senior Story | 2nd Street Market | Fairmont Class of 2020

Brandon is the Osterday baby. The last (but not least!) of Mike and Jennifer’s boys to graduate. I took their family photos back before they had any high schoolers in the house- back before I even knew what I was doing. Yet they trusted me and even let me come back after the first session to get a few “smiling and looking at the camera” pictures that I had missed. And then, one by one, they’ve trusted me to photograph their kid’s senior pictures- their boys becoming men. All three boys are unique and yet, very distinctly, Osterday…

One word to describe me would be eclectic.

I am interested in many different things: golf, band, music, coins, chess, history, math, and science to name a few.

In my free time I like to listen to music when I can…

I listen to pretty much anything.

My favorite kind of music is probably stuff from the 60s and 70s. Beatles, ELO, Beach Boys, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, and David Bowie to name a few.

Lately I’ve been listening to ‘Let’s Rock’ by the Black Keys.

 I play the trumpet in the marching band at Fairmont.

I am currently enrolled in the Business Management Program through Sinclair.

I think the most important thing I’ve learned in school so far is financial literacy- like how to do taxes, rent an apartment, and just handling money in general.

The most surprising thing I’ve learned in school is how to talk to people.

After I graduate I’ll probably go to Sinclair for a bit then transfer somewhere.

In ten years I see myself living in my parents basement…

Throwback to that first family session. I may have flubbed the smiling pictures but I still managed to get one of my all time favorites, Brandon with his beloved country and Pooh Bear:

Support local! Check out Dayton’s 2nd Street Market on a weekend morning sometime…

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Bobby Caldwell, Hot Air Balloons and What Heroes Are Made Of…

Yesterday makes 2 years since Bobby was taken from us. So much has changed and yet the most important thing has not- Bobby is still gone.

Last year our family (even the dogs) met together at his grave with gifts, a poem and a song.

This year, we tried something different. We gave each other space to grieve privately, and in our own ways. I talked to my sister in law and she told me that she was going to plant butterfly bushes. Bobby’s wife shared a gratitude post on Facebook with pictures and video of Bobby that made me laugh and cry. My mom and stepdad sat out on their deck (where they had been the moment he was killed) and were suddenly and supernaturally surrounded by butterflies and birds. I wanted to do something special too but my mind drew blanks.

So instead I went ahead and gave myself permission to make it through the day. I did some schoolwork, ran errands, took Jonah to soccer practice and went to David’s 8th grade open house. But the busyness of the day just sort of broke my heart.

Life goes on and it feels incredibly unfair and I am ridden with survivor guilt and doubt. It’s been 2 years and I’m still asking the same questions over and over again.

How can he be gone?

Where did he go?

 How can we go on without him?

Maybe the reason I still can’t accept that he’s gone is because it’s simply not true. Maybe he’s rooted right in the middle of our lives, much like the tiny oak tree I planted for him which sits right in the middle of the park where the kids play soccer.

Reminding me that hope grows wherever it is planted.

And we can still experience joy and life because Bobby is experiencing joy and life too.

Maybe I’m trying to find some silver lining that will ease my pain or maybe I’m just blowing hot air!

But heroes aren’t born out of intellect, science or reasoning.

They are formed out of the courage and bravery it takes to have faith.

Summer, 2019

Because all we need are dogs, kids, a rope and some grass to roll around in. Grateful for these summer evenings…

Bella’s Story | North Park | Springboro, Ohio

Growing up, we didn’t have dogs. What we did have was lots of cats with even more nicknames. Snookers, aka Schnooks, Jasmine aka Jeezers Double cheezers, Little Guy aka Littles Marittles… you get the idea (my big brother Tyler gets most of the credit for all the goofy names). I will always have a place in my heart for the kitties who kept us company during those rocky years but there’s something about being a dog owner that has changed me forever. My dogs, much like my children (before teen/tween years lol), have modeled to me the way to live life to the fullest; completely present to the world around them, faithful to the ones they love, and joyfully receiving the small treats throughout each of their days.

So when Steve contacted me and asked if I would be able to photograph his Border Collie, Bella, I jumped at the chance. Not only did I have so much fun watching Bella in her element, but I also thoroughly enjoyed listening to Steve tell Bella’s story with such awe and wonder for his faithful friend. It is with great pleasure and a dog lover’s gratitude that I get to share Bella’s story with you:

All I ever wanted as a kid was a dog who could catch a frisbee.

My wife was totally opposed to getting a Border Collie- she knew the inherent responsibility of taking care of it, in order to do it right. She knew I’d be fixated on ensuring that the dog had enough exercise- that it would be a big, big, big commitment which it has been.

But I persisted and we got Bella.

It was July 4 weekend. She was the last one of the litter to be taken. When we got home we had no kennel, no food, nothing. We did have bowls though, from my Labrador, Randi, who had passed away only 9 months before. Randi was to me the perfect dog, but Bella has taken that to another level.

She’s a magnet here at the park this time a year. This is her season to give back is what I call it. There are always strangers and new people at the park who haven’t seen her before and really marvel at some of the things she does athletically.

She’s a rugged dog too, she likes to explore the creeks and get dirty. Her temperament is incredible.

We exposed her to lots of stimuli early on in life and so she’s very sociable, she’s very lovable.

We introduced her to frisbee, early on. My buddy Tom helped me. We had the fortunate privilege of working with his dog Holly- who is a border collie a little bit older than Bella and a great frisbee dog. Bella did a couple extended play sessions with Holly until she got the ropes down and put it all together. That was when she was less than one year old.

Around that time, we had an accident at the park and the vet thought she tore her ACL. They recommended surgery but I said no. We ended up doing physical therapy and that got us by. She’s just a miracle!

We continue to do daily walks and use a lacrosse ball and the frisbee- we take it to new heights.

She gets the morning walk, the evening walk, I have a dog walker. She gets a ton of workouts and then we have a tracker on her that tracks her minutes and her activities and mileage so she’s a very well cared for dog.

A couple years ago I got into a frisbee dog league here in Dayton and she did well with that-with distance and accuracy frisbee throwing. She’s just continued to perfect her craft and take it to the next level. She’s 6, still at her prime- she just does some amazing things with her frisbee.

My plan next is to get her certified as a therapy dog to go into nursing homes, to help kids with autism. 

My wife loves Bella now. Although she still complains about the time she has to spend walking Bella, she loves it and its good because it gets her out.

For me, Bella has given me fulfillment.

I’ve been able to actualize my dream of having an ultimate frisbee dog.

I get to do it every day. Rain or shine. 

And I get to enjoy it…

Ken & Lauren | Fallsville Wildlife Area | New Vienna, Ohio

Every year, on the Sunday after Thanksgiving, we take the scenic drive to visit Josh’s family in peaceful Hillsboro, Ohio. Josh has about 50 cousins and I will admit, after almost 14 years of marriage, I still don’t know most of their names. I do know Lauren- though I always confuse her with Josh’s Aunts, Laura and Lori (you see why I gave up years ago???) Lauren is the complete package- embodying the best traits her amazing parents, Bill and Lettie could pass down. She is smart yet compassionate, sweet yet fierce, gorgeous yet modest but most of all she is dearly loved by our family. So when she brought a man to Thanksgiving last November, our ears perked up and our eyes were watching, waiting…who was this curious fellow? Ken smiled and spoke. A familiar warmth filled the room. He fit in perfectly.

When I found out about their engagement not too long afterwards I was not surprised one bit. I knew the very first time I saw them together that it would be unlikely I’d ever see them apart again…

We met each other online. I had given online dating a try and had enjoyed the experience of meeting many interesting people. I was getting tired however, of the time it took and frustrated that most of the guys I was meeting were not living out their professed faith. Ken reached out to me and I messaged him back. Apparently, I was in the “what if” category…

Initially, I was not interested in him at all. Our conversations online were nice; however, not earth shattering and I didn’t think his pictures did him justice.

Ken kept pursuing me however…

After screening my Instagram, he asked to skype. I kept delaying and putting off the skype date because I was so busy and didn’t think this was going anywhere. Finally, after approximately 2 weeks I committed to a day and went on an 8 mile run right before our skype. Sweaty, flushed, and ready to get this over with, I joined the call.

IMMEDIATELY, however, I was taken aback by his smile, energy, and genuineness. We talked for over an hour and I loved every minute of it.

When we got off the call he had not asked for a second date, and I called my mom panicking because I REALLY wanted to meet him…

I remember seeing Lauren in person for the first time through the side-mirror of my rental car. I sharply remember her stance, like that of a warrior waiting for the events to follow, I quickly grabbed the flowers in the seat next to me, finished up a prayer and went outside to meet her in person, and I was instantly blown away.

It’s one thing to see something beautiful online, it’s another thing to behold it in person with your very eyes.

Well, I did get that second date. A little later after our skype call, Ken asked me on a date. He said he was “old fashioned” and he wanted to meet my parents and ask them for permission to take me out. I actually really liked this for a couple of reasons:

  1.  My mom is really opinionated and picky so I thought, we might as well get the screening done now
  2.  I knew he was really serious about this as it would take a lot of courage to meet someone’s parents…especially my parents.
  3.  It made me feel very safe since I did not know anything about him.

He arrived promptly at my parents’ home that Saturday bringing me flowers. He was so kind, thoughtful, and articulate. My parents and I talked to him for over an hour. It was not awkward or uncomfortable, it just felt natural.

Afterward he took me hiking. We went to a waterfall and another hiking trail. I picked up on small gestures that I loved, i.e. holding the door open for me, looking behind to take my hand and help me down the rock cliffs, bringing me Gatorade….he was very thoughtful. We had no trouble talking the whole time. Asking questions about each other, laughing. Ken had great eye contact and a sense of confidence about him that I really appreciated.

The real challenge was to keep my attention to every word she spoke, my thoughts about her beauty and character kept filling my mind. I knew I wanted to marry her from that day on. It was just a matter of waiting, winning her heart and praying.

After hiking we went to dinner and then to a café for coffee where we talked some more. We were together for over 6 hours on our first date! I don’t think either of us wanted to leave.

It was a day I didn’t want to say goodbye…

It became routine during the first few weeks of dating that after Lauren and I would both say our goodbyes, we’d end up calling each other on the phone to clarify our statements/actions. We had to learn to trust one another, while keeping an open line of communication.

From the very beginning Ken set the foundation for pursuing me very intentionally. I have never met a man that has so many communication skills. We are able to clearly articulate our feelings, thoughts, and process through hard times and celebrate our successes.

This openness with one another has really helped Lauren and I immediately discuss any doubts, or concerns right away so that we can both grow rather than potentially stunting the growth of our relationship.

My biggest challenge is balancing independence and leadership. I have a strong personality and a strong desire to be independent…

Ken strives to be the Godly leader. At first I immediately resisted any instruction or guidance as I was afraid to lose myself. Throughout our dating journey through prayer and discussion I am learning how to accept help and adopt a more “together” mentality.

Ken and I are both pretty serious individuals…

Since Lauren and I are both thinkers/processors we like to examine and dig deep into what we say. Thankfully we are able to balance each other out. We have times where we are goofy and laugh and times where we are very intentional. I believe we have cultivated a healthy balance.

Lauren and mine’s relationship is comparable to two things that pair really well together. Like freshly-popped popcorn and a good movie.

I used to plan out each day and my future fully. I began to realize this lead to a lot of anxiety however, because if my plans did not succeed I became very anxious. I am working on surrendering control to the Lord to direct my path.

Whether God leads Ken and I to partner with local or global missions, I pray that we have a heart for service and with the two of us we will strengthen each other to do more for God’s Kingdom than we could ever do alone.

PS- If you’re like me and always looking for new nature scenery check out Fallsville Wildlife Area– it was truly breathtaking!

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Rhea’s Senior Story | Crain’s Run & Smale Riverfront Park | Miamisburg Class of 2019

Rhea is the kind of young person who gives me a hopeful outlook for the future. She’s courteous, mature, and most importantly, she loves her family. Here’s her senior story:

For fun I like to dance.

 People ask me to dance at weddings so usually me and a couple friends will choreograph a Bollywood dance.

Two years ago my family moved from Cincinnati to Miamisburg.

I lived there since I was four- basically since I could remember. I went from private school to public school. I feel like it is more eye opening- you see different types of people in a public school.  In private school everyone is the same.

I like the diversity in public but there are times I miss private school. I miss wearing uniforms because you don’t have to worry about what to wear every morning.

It’s been a challenge making new friends. I’m not as outgoing as I’d like to be.

I’m really shy at first.

Sometimes I expect people to kind of include me in things rather than me initiating conversations. When they initiate first then I’ll be like, ok, maybe they don’t hate me.

This year I have been initiating a lot more than last year.

Once I get to know someone I end up talking, like a lot.

This fall I’m going to school at UC to study business law. 

I choose business law as a kind of a last resort thing. I can’t do anything medical because I’m terrified of needles and blood. But being a business lawyer… I feel like I have so many connections within my family. My family owns hotels-they are business owners. It’s something I’d be confident in going into more than anything else.

The most important thing in my life is family. Moving made me appreciate my family even more and it definitely brought us together. When we first moved we didn’t know many people in the area. We spent more time together for sure.

In 10 years I see myself living in a big city. I’m not sure where yet.

 I definitely see a family.

Being a Zumba instructor would be fun…

Have you ever been to Smale Riverfront Park in Cincinnati? It’s a pretty happening place, only costs $5 bucks to park and there’s even a Carousel for the kids. If you make the trek, I recommend hitting up Eli’s BBQ for some grub…you absolutely MUST try their jalapeño cheddar grits!

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Marley’s Story | Rainbow Bridge Session At Home | Springboro, Ohio

When I found out my neighbors dog was diagnosed with a terminal illness I tried to think of a way I could help. I have not experienced the loss of a dog yet but I have experienced loss, I have experienced grief. And I hate it- I want to beat it! But I know that if I did I would no longer be able to love because grief is love. Maybe the best way I could help my friends as they came face to face with their dog’s death would be documenting the precious life and love they would soon be grieving. The life they would always love and often, especially in the beginning, long for. Here’s Marley’s story:

We got Marley when we were out to dinner. We had a wait at a restaurant and right next door there was a pet shop. We took the boys to look at the pets to pass the time. Oscar was 3 and Ben was 6. There was this dog that was quarantined from all the other dogs and we were like what’s wrong with that one? He was just a puppy and he looked like a lab.

We took him home and the kids called him Marley because the movie, Marley and Me was out around that time. We’ve had him a year longer than we’ve had Grace.

When he was a puppy he used to curl up in a little ball and he looked just like a little cotton ball. He had floppy ears, it was pretty cute. One ear flopped down and one went straight up. We started to think we had gotten a fox.

He was literally the most chill dog. Gentile. Docile. He grew up with the kids and toddlers – they beat on them. He just took it.

He never snipped, never snapped back. He sniffed filet before eating it. He was spoiled. He didn’t bark. He wanted to be in your sight. Anytime the kids came over for piano he jumped up in his chair.

 I don’t think I ever yelled at him. -Josh

My favorite thing to do with Marley was laying with him and watching movies. Just cuddling… -Oscar

I liked taking him on walks and running with him. -Ben

He loved the guinea pigs. He never tried to eat them, he just licked them. -Grace

We’re going to miss the running more than anything. -Heather

Everybody in the running community around here has run with him. I’ve taken him on all these group runs so everybody knows who Marley is.

Losing a dog is like losing a best friend.

 They’re with us everyday.

In loving memory of Marley 2010-2019

“If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went.” –Will Rogers

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Interview with Savannah 9 Years Old, Springboro, Ohio

The other night we were bored at soccer practice so Savannah I looked at some old blog posts.

We ran across an interview I did with my niece Caylee Jo a few years ago, and Savannah was inspired.

Here’s a sweet lil’ glimpse of Savannah at age 9:

What’s your favorite color?

Teal

What’s your favorite food?

Salad and pizza

What’s your favorite candy?

Kit Kat

What do you think heaven’s like?

I think it’s a huge light and there’s God and we change into people we want to be but I would want to be an animal.

A bunny. Actually no a wolf.

What age do you think a person is an adult?

I think about nineteen

Why do you think nineteen makes them an adult?

Because it sounds like a good age for an adult and I’ve heard about it.

If you could change one rule about your family what would you change?

No noises! Only if it’s drums and music and stuff.

What makes your family special?

We all love music.

What makes a person good?

When they’re kind and respectful to other people and they don’t always blame people for what they do. Or lie.

What makes a person bad?

If they’re murdering, kidnapping, being very rude, blaming other people. And lying.

Are you a good friend?

Sometimes. When I’m rude I’m grumpy and in the mood to blame people.

I don’t know why. When I’m happy I’m in the mood to be nice.

Can you control your moods?

Sometimes.

If you could be invisible for a day what would you do?

I would steal donuts from Bills and bring them home and give them away but nobody would know who it is because I’m invisible!

What is the best gift you’ve ever been given?

My life.

Why is that the best?

So I have time to be here. My friends are here.

What is the hardest thing about being a kid?

Teachers scream at you.

Only teachers?

And…my mom…and my dad…and my brothers.

Where’s your favorite place in the world?

Florida

If you could give a gift to every child in the world what would it be?

I would give them all water clothes and food. Good food.

If you could make one rule that everyone would have to follow, what would it be?

NO stealing jewelry. Actually…NO stealing valentines! Actually… NO being a bully!

Brittany’s Mom Story | At Home in the Fall | Oregon District

Parenting, like love, is fucking messy.

Real life looks more like crumbs on the table and toys on the floor than a Pottery Barn catalog.

The notion that every other family is perfect and their children go to bed easily without fuss and every morning is perfect, the idea that everyone else has their shit more together than me and every moment spent with their family is wholesome, full of carefree happiness and gratitude…

I had to let it go, it’s not real.

Parenting is not Pinterest.

The working-mom guilt, the overall anxiety that I’m doing it all wrong and screwing my children up permanently guilt. The having to make money to survive and pay bills and getting misty when I miss an important milestone like losing a first tooth, only to be told by a babysitter or teacher guilt. The exhausted parent guilt of forgetting to put money under the pillow because I’m also the tooth fairy, or getting slightly annoyed because I’m a servant to my children even when I’m sick. The single parent guilt because I’m divorced and they notice I’m ringless- as if I can’t be a great parent anyway. The guilt that the fairy tale I dreamt of sometimes seems to be turning into a nightmare. The guilt of being any kind of family that doesn’t fit society’s norm…

I had to let it go.

There are no perfect children, and there are no perfect parents. Whether you are a stay-at-home, working, single, married, divorced, or a something else parent, it isn’t easy. I have to constantly remind myself on the hardest days that despite the Instagram feeds, nobody else knows what they’re doing either.

So I’m setting the bar a little lower. That sounds opposite of what the parenting books say, and I don’t mean that I shouldn’t seek to improve on areas they feel weak, but if I’m constantly comparing myself to others, it’s impossible to be happy. I need to be gentle with myself. My children are happier when I’m happier, no matter what that happiness looks like.

For me that means letting the dishes sit in the sink. It means reading the extra bedtime story. After all, the dishes and never ending laundry mountain will still be there waiting on me. I try to teach my kids to help with the household tasks, instilling independence and teamwork- showing them they are a part of a bigger picture. The world doesn’t revolve around them. I don’t hide every challenge and inconvenience from them in attempt to keep the world a magical place.

I don’t do everything for them, but teach them that they are strong and capable of getting through anything that comes their way if they don’t give up. I want to teach them to ask for help, to allow them to try and work through problems.

Life is crazy and imbalances are unavoidable. Some days are smooth sailing, others I’m boarding up the windows and embracing the hurricane. The dream of running off to join the circus becomes impossible when I realize that we ARE the circus… and that’s okay.

The Lurie’s Fall Story | At Home | Englewood, Ohio,

Our family is generous, loving and connected.

We work together to bring joy and love every day.

Bonnie is a logistics director at Kids Read Now. She helps select the books for the program and helps make sure thousands of students get free books throughout the summer months.

Josh owns his own wood working business where he creates many unique and amazing things from wood. When in season, he works as a naturalist at the Miami county parks, helping teach children about nature.

Emma wants to be a paleontologist when she grows up.

Susan wants to be a zoologist and animal trainer.

When we aren’t working or going to school, we love to snuggle, watch movies, go on hikes, play at playgrounds, play games and bake.

We have many dreams and goals. Bonnie wants to make it through life happy and alive and raise loving, amazing children.

Emma wants to be a rebel girl like from the book. She wants to change the world!

Susan wants to be kind and have children, and her dream is to help and train animals.

Josh wants to make our family the coolest and most fun it can be.

Our dream vacation is a hands on nature adventure, exploring new places together. 

We fight battles big and small, united as a family which helps us grow.

Our biggest challenges are learning gymnastics, standing up and fighting for the happiness of our family and dealing with the children’s love of spiders.

The love and happiness the girls show everyday is inspiring.

Their kindness and innocence is remarkable.

We wish for them stability, happiness, unconditional love, adventure, challenges to help them grow,  and assurance we are always here.

In ten years after we send off our two girlies into the world, we plan on traveling together. 

Before having children, love was a completely different concept.

Now it is something indescribable and unbreakable.

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